My Friend, It’s Time to Let Go

I want to liberate myself.  I want to give meaning to my life, to be a positive influence, “live” rather than “exist” and make a difference. It is time to let go of the world that was. False prophets, false people, false direction. Mindless routines. Loveless direction. Let go of things. Life is not about […]

Lessons Learned From My Long, Lost Father

I was 7 years old and remember him saying, “I’m going out for some cigarettes and will be right back.” He never returned. For years, I was angry about my father disappearing. How could a father do that to his family? Not even saying good bye. There are people who suffer issues of abandonment when […]

Tiny News Stories Make Me Cry

She was only 13 years old. Riding a bicycle. Struck by a car and killed. Her name was not revealed. No details on the accident. It was a short blurb in the newspaper. The kind of “tiny” story that papers typically hide in a side column, tucked away from the major headlines of the day. […]

Life Shouldn’t Be About Winning

Today, our society is obsessed with winning. Enormous pressure is put on our youth to go out there and “win”. And if you’re not viewed as a winner, you’re seen as a loser, with no middle ground. This obsession eats away at our subconscious  – to the point where each and every day, we evaluate […]

You Have the Power to Change Lives

Most people say I love you and expect the other person to say it back. But that’s the wrong reason to say it. If we truly love someone, we’ll express that love without expecting love in return. Doing a kind deed without waiting for something back is equally rare. It is that rarity which makes […]